If you enter into a hot affair, it’s important to have some ground rules in place before deciding to become a mistress. And if you do decide to become “the other woman,” i.e., a sidepiece or mistress, it’s vital that you understand the terms of the deal. So here are the 5 rules you have to know before getting down to business as a mistress:
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If you’re the mistress, you may not be the only mistressObviously, becoming the other woman doesn’t mean that you will be the only woman.
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Enjoy the stolen momentsWhen engaging in a steamy affair as a mistress, it’s not necessary to focus on anything else other than having a sexy good time in the moment. Savor it, and don’t worry about what happens when you’re not together.
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Be comfortable with your role as the mistress—the main woman is not relevantThere’s no reason to compare yourself to the wife or the main woman: if you’re the mistress, focus on enjoying yourself and having fun.
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Keep it positiveWhen engaging in a “situationship,” keeping things positive, fun, and light is the only way to go. Remember that an affair is not a serious relationship—this is the joy of being the mistress, not the wife.
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Don’t get emotionally attachedBeing a mistress means being a sidepiece, and there’s no guarantee that will change. If you’re looking for something serious, steer clear of an affair.