Phone sex is hot. Whether you’re in a long distance relationship or just want someone to talk dirty to you, phone sex is an extremely fun and erotic way to get off—after all, the brain is the biggest sexual organ in the body. Here are detailed tips from professional phone-sex operators to help you perfect your dirty-talk game.
- Indulge in your fantasies
One of the best things about phone sex is that you can really explore your fantasies. Try to set the scene with sensory details—imagine you’re telling your partner a sexy story; you want it to be super vivid. - Plan beforehand
Setting a phone sex date lets you get your head in the game. “It opens up an opportunity to talk about what you might want to explore, what phrases or words turn you on, and how to signal that you’re ready for phone sex to be over.” - Read an erotic story
This will let you say dirty things without the pressure of having to actually come up with them yourself. - Don’t rush it
Phone sex is the ultimate tease. You’re describing every touch and movement, so take your time and let the pressure build. It will drive your partner wild! - Make sure your language is action-oriented
“Shove that, shake those, grab and hold and twist, push it in, push it in — way in,” says a phone-sex operator. “That purr in your voice will be even breathier and insistent when you ask if [they] want you to spread wider, or clamp down like a vise.” Hot!
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