It seems butt sex is all the rage these days. Anal is great, but there’s still some things you should know that will make the experience so much more enjoyable. Here are some tips for ladies who are new to the pleasures of backdoor sex.
- Start on your own
According to sexperts, the key to enjoying anal is being comfortable with your body and what feels good for you. Try incorporating anal play into masturbation and see what types of sensations you like before trying anything with a partner. - Choose a sex toy that vibrates
For women, a vibrating sex toy can be a familiar sensation. According to a sexpert, adding that sensation can “help to relax the pubococcygeus muscles which wrap in a figure eight around the vaginal opening and around the anus.” - Be prepared
Anal requires some prep-time: condoms, dildos or strap-ons, and of course, a ton of lube. And if you’re doing it in the shower, make sure you use a silicone-based lube not water-based. - Don’t use enemas
A lot of women think an enema is a good thing, but it’s actually not. “Many women believe that they’re pushing fecal elements out of the way, but in actuality there’s very little fecal elements in that part of the rectum, it tends to come from higher up,” Van Kirk said. Pushing things farther back is unnecessary and can lead to problems later on. - Some positions are better than others
Spooning is a great position for beginners because you can control how fast and deep your partner goes. Reverse cowgirl is also great for this. - You can have an orgasm from butt sex!
As it turns out, you can have a G-spot orgasm from butt sex because the bottom of the rectum corresponds with the top of the pussy where your G-spot is! The best positions to find the G-spot are reverse cowgirl or standing and facing away from your partner.
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