If you’ve ever had an orgy, we bet there’s a few things you wish you’d known beforehand. This is why members of the BuzzFeed community decided to give helpful tips for you to know before you go. Because let’s face it—orgies are never what they look like in porn.
- Don’t stress if it’s not what you expected.
“Most of the time, 75% of the group is confused.” Just go with it! - Don’t do something you’re not comfortable with. If you don’t want to be double-penetrated or jerked off or kissed, say so.
Also, safe words are key. - Stimulation overload can totally occur.
As one single lady who recently went to swinger’s party said, “Don’t be hesitant to take a break if you need one.” - Don’t let your defined sexuality get in the way.
“Don’t be afraid to try something new. When there’s more than three people, inhibitions already don’t matter.” Anything goes at an orgy! - Don’t get inside your head about what other people are seeing, doing, or thinking.
Nobody is judging you if they’re there too. - You’ll know pretty immediately if the orgy is a right fit for you, so trust your gut.
“Most people who participate in an orgy are extremely open-minded. You’ll either decide immediately that it’s not for you, or you’ll just go with the flow and have a lot of uncomfortable laughs along the way.” Both are totally fine! - If you’re feeling left out, make sure you communicate that.
Remember that you’re in charge of your own experience at an orgy.
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