With SeductiveRed (@MamaRedHot)
How did you begin in the world of adult chat and phone sex?
I had a 25 year long career in the Hospitality Industry. I was in upper level management working close to 70 hours a week leaving little time for myself. I decided to take a break from it to explore my sexuality and the sexuality of others. I’d always had fantasies about lying in my bed talking on the phone with my lover exchanging the most erotic of conversations. I loved the freedom and inhibition we both felt to explore our deepest and darkest fantasies. That’s when I decided to make that fantasy a reality and I’ve never felt more fulfilled and satisfied.
What do you do for fun when not taking phone sex and phone with cam (cam sex) calls on NiteFlirt?
I enjoy being near or in the water more than anything else in life. Living in Florida I spend my spare time at the beaches, rivers, and lakes that surround me. Lying on the beach listening to the waves roll in is my zen. Snorkeling and exploring the beautiful spring fed rivers rejuvenates me. I am also an accomplished chef and enjoy cooking and dining out. Food is fuel but it is also comforting, nourishing, and even erotic at times. I think dining should be an experience of all ones’ senses. I also enjoy a good story and story tellers. I spend my luxury time devouring books of all styles and themes from history to erotica and everything in between.
With all your experience in the world of erotic fantasy and adult chat, what’s your favorite part of sex?
The Mind Fuck! Our mind is our most erogenous organ. When there is that spark of electricity in your brain when you make that connection with someone. When it travels through your body electrifying your endorphins. When there is that building of sexual tension between two minds. Uggh….I’m getting tingles just thinking about it!
Is there anything you do to get yourself in the mood for an erotic fantasy phone sex session?
Getting into a proper headspace is essential for enjoying what I do. I start my day out by showering and grooming. You may not always see me, but I enjoy the process of making myself look pretty not just for my clients but for myself. I put on some slow and sensual music while I dress, put on my make up, and prepare. Just before I log in I enjoy a little visual stimulation as well. My favorite is tumblr. The blogs I follow there give me life and electrify my senses and get my creative juices flowing. Phone sex is “theatre of the mind” therefore having a creative mind and being an excellent story teller is essential. I enjoy porn as well but it leaves little to the imagination sometimes. All I need is an image to get me going…and let my own imagination create something better and more powerful than porn.
What erotic fantasy would you like enacted on YOU?
The fantasy I enjoy most is similiar to what I enjoy doing to others. Being restrained. I love to take a lover and put him/her in a very vulnerable position…naked…exposed…and restrained. There’s an extreme level of heightened anxiety when one agrees to be made helpless in the trust of another. Fighting that initial anxiety brings about a sexual tension and struggle that only one’s mind can overcome and is a beautiful thing. Taking their vulnerability a step further by blindfolding them once again raises that anxiety by removing the sense of sight and amplifying every other sensation. I love to watch how their body responds. From the beads of sweat on their lip, the tiny hairs on their skin at full attention, the pace of their breath,the contraction of muscles from the slightest touch of my fingertip on their sensitive skin, to the spine tingling sensation engulfing them from my whispered words in their ear. Delicious!
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