Having the right lube is just as important as any other part of a sexual experience. And just like one’s preferences for different kinks, fetishes, body types, positions, etc., one’s lube is also a unique personal preference. So here are some facts that will help you to find that perfect lube.
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Silicone-based lubesThese long-lasting lubes are soft and silky against the skin and won’t leave any sticky residue behind. They’re great for anal, work well with condoms, and can also be used in the shower.
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Water-based lubesThese are thinner, slipperier, and easy to clean up afterward. They can also be used with condoms, but because they’re so thin and sticky, you have to keep reapplying, so they’re not great for anal or marathon fuck-fests.
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Novelty lubesThese are your flavored lubes, warming or “arousal” lubes, or desensitizing lubes for when you need a little cool-down down there (if thinking of baseball doesn’t work, that is!). They tend to smell chemically, taste weird, and be sticky—that’s probably why they’re a “novelty.”
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Whatever lube you pick, be sure to avoid irritating ingredientsSome people may be sensitive to the ingredients in lubes, and can have bad reactions. As a rule, try to avoid ingredients like perfume, mint, menthol, petroleum, glycerin, and cinnamon. But if you’re buying a high quality lube, it probably won’t contain any potential irritating ingredients.
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Try before you buyWhen you go to the sex store, you can usually test out lubes before buying them—on your hands, of course! Rub a little on your hand or arm to compare different textures, sensations, etc. Remember that you want it to feel soft and smooth, not goopy, sticky, or too thin.
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Buy more than one!Maybe you want a thicker lube for anal, but a thinner one for other fun things. Nothing wrong with keeping your options open for different activities!
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