When it comes to sexting, there’s a fine line between sexy and cringey. It’s just one of those things you’re expected to figure out as you go along, which isn’t always easy. Here are some tips on how to up your sexting game and avoid some awkward conversations.
- Don’t be a dead-weight sexting partner.Questions are a good jumping off point, but you don’t want to get to the point where you’re only asking questions and making the other person do all the work. “Oh, yeah. And then what…?” is only good at first.
- Start by talking about the last time you had sex or some other hot memory.“How hot was last night?” is always a good way to get things going.
- Don’t skimp on the details.As BuzzFeed says, “Tell me exactly where your hands, lips, etc. are gonna go, and what they’re gonna do.”
- Ease into it. Sexting needs foreplay too.Start slow. Teasing is all part of the fun.
- Never show your face.It’s always good to take the necessary precautions.
- Also never send unsolicited nudes.No unsolicited dick pics, guys.
- Use Boomerang to make sexy GIFs.The only thing better than a sexy video is a sexy GIF.
- Or send voice notes with WhatsApp.It’s always so much hotter to hear each other’s voices.
- Ask your partner about their fantasies.Then you can bring them up in a sext.
- Set the mood.Even though sexting in your PJ’s and pretending to be naked is fine, it’s really fun to light candles and set a romantic mood, too.
- Go easy on the emojis.Not the time and place for cute symbols. Use words, people!
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