Immersion is beautiful, but it takes energy. It takes emotional presence. It takes boundaries and self-awareness, too.
Saturday is about the real strength behind Stellaris’ softness, and how they take care of their energy while offering such a devoted and creative experience.
When asked about self-care and staying balanced, Stellaris answers with honesty and experience:
“This is actually a question that others have asked me, too, especially colleagues who are on the dominant side whereas I am on the submissive side. But, while I am newer to NiteFlirt, and offering these experiences to others, I’ve been involved in kink, BDSM, and fetish for probably over 10 years now. I have had a lot of time to learn what I need as a submissive, and I’ve also learned a lot from others, doms, subs, and switches alike.
One of the big things is, Stellaris is a persona. They are heavily rooted in who I am as a real person, even if they are a fairy, but I still have some separation there. I also am grounded enough in myself at this point that aftercare, from someone I do not know personally after a digital interaction, isn’t something I require. If any of my clients want to offer it to me as part of our roleplay or conversation after, I absolutely do accept and deeply appreciate it, and it can be another part of our bonding experience and exploration.
But also, I have personal, real-life partners and doms who are happy to take care of me, as well as personal, real-life platonic friends in kink scenes I can talk to and share experiences with, who support me in what I do. I also take care of myself with practices like yoga, meditation, cardio, tarot reading, Hellenic and pagan devotional practices, or also just getting cozy with a hot cup of tea and a book or one of my favorite shows or video games.”
Saturday’s message is simple: Stellaris offers magic, but they also know how to stay grounded. That’s why the castle feels safe. That’s why the fantasy feels sustainable. And that’s why the experience feels so personal.
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