As a thirty something single female, I often find myself wondering how my peers are doing when it comes to relationships, love, and sex. I think to myself “Do people really have open relationships, are people fulfilling sexual fantasies, does everyone want to get married, am I a dead fish in the sack compared to others?” I conducted a survey with a handful of 30 year olds (men and women) and I was pleasantly surprised with the answers. People be loving sex, which isn’t shocking but I think more folks want that true love to last more than they admit. Read our first story from a sweet dirty thirty +1 chick! Sounds like she needs to put her big girl pants on and get back in the saddle!
Sex : Female
Age: 31
City: New York
Astrological Sign: Leo
Single (y/n): Y
Do you see yourself marrying your significant other? If not, are you happy? If single do you see yourself getting married in the future?
Yes, I see myself spending a huge portion of my life with one person, if we get married that’s cool too!
Do you believe in being with one person forever?
I still have a little faith, my parents have been together for 31 years so it must jive for some, people are fickle when it comes to relationships these days – I truly believe you need to put the effort into it like anything else in life that you want to flourish.
Would you be willing to try an open relationship? Do you believe they work?
No, I don’t believe they work, at least not for me. I’d be lying to myself if I thought that one would be.
Would you try a threesome with your partner if you were in an exclusive relationship?
No, In this case sharing is NOT caring.
What would you prefer? 2 guys 1 girl or vice versa?
If I ever did indulge I’m not sure how I’d have it. I would think 2 girls would be awkward, and with 2 guys it seems intimidating, so probably neither!
What is a fantasy of yours? Have you ever fulfilled it?
I’m pretty open in the bedroom, so things, I’ve wanted I’ve tried. I evolve a lot so I’m sure in a year or so I’ll have a new fantasy to experiment with.
If you’re single what dating sites have you used? If currently dating have you used dating sites in the past, if so, which ones? Dating Apps included.
I have not.
Did you find them to be useful?
N/A
Were you honest with profile? If not what were you dishonest about?
N/A
What is something that would fix in your current relationship (if anything)? If you’re single, why do you think you’re single?
I think I’m single because I’ve been dealing with a career upheaval and lots of stress, so I don’t really put myself out there, so to speak.
Are you comfortable with telling you’re partner they aren’t up to snuff in the bedroom? Absolutely, in the sweetest way possible of course. Sex is an important component of a relationship, you need to communicate.
Have you ever been in a relationship with a partner that wasn’t bringing the noise in the sheets? Did you tell he/she? If so, how did you break the bad news to them?
To be honest I think everyone that I’ve been in an exclusive relationship has been enjoyable in bed. I think one casual encounter sucked, I never went THERE again. If I was dating someone I’d just be open and loving about it.
What’s the most embarrassing thing that has ever happened to you during a sex session? Nothing off hand, maybe if my landscaping wasn’t up to snuff! Which is like NEVER.
Even though we live in a progressive world, do you still feel societal pressures to get married and have kids?
|Yes, more so now at 31.
Lightning Round:
- What type of music makes you the horniest? Lounge House
- What is the sexiest most seductive thing anyone has ever done to you? I love men that take charge. One memory stains my brain… he took me out of the shower laid me on the bed and went down on me, and then we had great sex!
- What is sexier? Sex in a park on a blanket for a few to see, or discretely under a blanket on an airplane? Park.
- Have you thought about sex today, if so how many times? Yes, once or twice. More after doing this survey.
- Do you miss sex with an ex? Sometimes
- Do you think you have sex better now in your 30s or better in your 20s? I would say right now my 20s because I haven’t had much of it lately.
- If better, why? If worse, why? The real answer is that sex in my 30s is great because hell you’ve had years of practice by now!
- Do you feel more complete and whole as a person when dating someone, single, or doesn’t matter (BE HONEST PEOPLE its anonymous )? I don’t mind being single, there are tons of great things going on in my life but how great can it be if you can’t share it with someone else?!
- What’s your favorite non-porno movie sex scene? Hmmm
“In the Cut” with Mark Ruffalo and Meg Ryan. - Do you look at porn? Everyday that ends in Y! In reality, yes once in awhile.
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