Bravo to our stud from SoCal for being so open with his stance on relationships, marriage and love. A man who can communicate is like a diamond in the rough, his leading lady is one lucky gal! I hope his cravings and comfort with sex grows and flourishes as time goes by!
Sex : M
Age: 36
City: Los Angeles
Astrological Sign: Aries
Single (y/n): No
Do you see yourself marrying your significant other? If not, are you happy? If single do you see yourself getting married in the future?
I honestly don’t look very far in the future when it comes to relationships. I come from a long line of failed marriages and lives that have been torn apart by relationships that didn’t work out and I have been scared off from that. I honestly think that the way we view marriage in the USA can be somewhat toxic. People seem to think that a marriage is some sort of ownership agreement where they now possess their partner. I have never felt a need to tell someone else to do and I have an extremely hard time being told what to do. I believe that we are all individuals first and if you somehow find someone that you can come together with, that’s amazing. I don’t see marriage as two people coming together to form a whole and I think that concept has been the undoing of many marriages. I would never judge myself, of my life, as a success or failure based on whether or not I wed a partner eventually.
Do you believe in being with one person forever?
As I said above, I just don’t think about it much. I try as hard as possible to simply live in the moment. If I do wind up with someone forever, that’s wonderful. If I don’t, that will be ok as well. I just don’t think about it.
Would you be willing to try an open relationship? Do you believe they work?
I think they are incredibly difficult to make work. In theory the idea is romantic and I think it can supply the parties with the freedom that I think is so crucial for a relationship to truly thrive and blossom. In actuality though, I think that they just don’t seem to work out very often. Too much jealousy and too many insecurities just seem to be too large of a hurdle. For it to work I believe both parties would have to be mature to a level that most adults just simply aren’t. It’s a great theory though!
Would you try a threesome with your partner if you were in an exclusive relationship?
I don’t think so. Again, the idea is exciting but the actuality is just too destructive to a relationship.
What would you prefer? 2 guys 1 girl or vice versa?
Definitely 2 girls, 1 guy. Haha.
What is a fantasy of yours? Have you ever fulfilled it?
I think that because of my past history with seeing other people’s relationships have issues when I was a kid and my own personal issues it’s hard for me to delve too deep into fantasies. It’s hard enough for me to just focus on having a normal and loving sex life all on it’s own! I dearly hope that I am the outlier though. The idea is amazing and sexy and exciting! I wish I could immerse myself more into it.
If you’re single what dating sites have you used? If currently dating have you used dating sites in the past, if so, which ones? Dating Apps included.
Haven’t really used any to be honest. I do love living vicariously through my friends experiences though!
Did you find them to be useful?
N/A
Were you honest with profile? If not what were you dishonest about?
N/A
What is something that would fix in your current relationship (if anything)? If you’re single, why do you think you’re single?
I’m pretty happy. I always have issues being in relationships because of my own constant need for freedom. That really is my only issue, although it is a big one I admit!
Are you comfortable with telling you’re partner they aren’t up to snuff in the bedroom?
Ha. I probably would be. It would take some real confidence to hear it though, I would think.
Have you ever been in a relationship with a partner that wasn’t bringing the noise in the sheets? Did you tell he/she? If so, how did you break the bad news to them?
I’ve always been fine with telling my partner if I wanted something else and hearing that they wanted something else. No worries or problems there.
What’s the most embarrassing thing that has ever happened to you during a sex session?
Hmmmmm, I don’t get very embarrassed in bed to be honest. My only issue is not wanting to have sex with my partners as much as they want because I have my own personal issues to deal with. Can’t think of anything embarrassing offhand except wanting to want to have more sex!
Even though we live in a progressive world, do you still feel societal pressures to get married and have kids?
Ummmm, I honestly don’t but those pressures center so much more around women for societal, as well as biological reasons. I’ve never judged myself that way and I still don’t.
Lightning Round:
- 1.What type of music makes you the horniest?
Lounge house. - What is the sexiest most seductive thing anyone has ever done to you?
Just completely having no inhibitions, which is something I struggle with. - What is sexier? Sex in a park on a blanket for a few to see, or discretely under a blanket on an airplane?
Park. - Have you thought about sex today, if so how many times?
Doesn’t everyone think about it all day?! - Do you miss sex with an ex?
Doesn’t everyone a little?! - Do you think you have sex better now in your 30s or better in your 20s?
Definitely now. - If better, why? If worse, why?
Everything gets better with age. - Do you feel more complete and whole as a person when dating someone, single, or doesn’t matter (BE HONEST PEOPLE its anonymous)?
Single. - What’s your favorite non-porno movie sex scene?
I kinda like the ‘Black Swan’ scene with Mila and Natalie, although girl on girl doesn’t usually do that much for me. Ha. - Do you look at porn?
Yes, sometimes.
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