In a recent scientific survey published in the Journal of Sexual Medicine, lesbians reported having orgasms 75% of the time while straight women only got off 63% of the time. So why is it that lesbians are cumming better and more often than their straight women counter-parts? Lesbian and sex expert author, Jenny Block, has some ideas. 
The first is that it’s a biological fact that women don’t cum as easily with PIV, or penis in vagina intercourse (it’s much easier for women to cum by clitoral stimulation). And with straight couples, especially long-term ones, sex can sometimes be focused around this one act (in and out, so to speak). Not so with lesbian couples, who have to be much more imaginative when it comes to fucking since neither has a cock. Also, with straight couples, cumming can sometimes also be focused around the man getting off, since men can cum easier than women, on average 85% of the time. But isn’t it also true according to studies that men most definitely want to please women sexually? Maybe the problem is that in straight couples the woman isn’t focused enough on pleasing herself. Think about it: with two women, it takes more time and effort to get off, so reaching orgasm is a mutual (and sexy!) goal for each.
The ultimate take-away: women need to speak up, and focus on her own pleasure as much as her man’s. This way both parties are happy, both get off, and fucking becomes much more enjoyable and fun for all involved. Women should masturbate, figure out what turns her on, and not be scared to speak up in bed, letting her partner know what she likes and what he can do to take her all the way to mind-blowing pleasure.
Amen to that! Who’s up for some mutually hot, orgasms-all-around fun? We know we are!
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