I actually find sleeping patterns and nocturnal behavior fascinating, I for one love to canoodle up to my lovah. However, once I’m asleep get to your side of the bed! I came across a recent survey on the Huff Post and it revealed that half of British couples turn their backs and cheeks away from their significant other when its time for zzzzs.
Relationship Psychologist, Corrine Sweet states that your sleeping rituals can expose relationship woes: “During sleep, you cannot fake your body language. This is the time when you are honest, vulnerable and your sleeping position can reveal a lot about your relationship.
I’m no psychologist but I don’t need my boyfriend to be barnacled on my back to know he loves me. Call me crazy! Corrine goes on to explain:
“Couples fall into habitual ways of sleeping together that suits their personalities and personal preferences. These are negotiated at the outset, so if something changes in how they sleep together, this can reflect a change in their relationship and cause concern for the other partner.”
Every couple is different and if it’s cozy for the two of you to be tangled up all night that’s fabulous, but if you need your space on the Sealy that’s totally understandable. The best time for spooning is in the morning anyway, nothing better than waking up to a probing missile.
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Completely agree, if you’re worried your sleeping positions are an indication of an issue in your relationship, you’ve got bigger issues!
I think it’s a win if two people can sleep together in harmony, in whatever form. A bed is a shared domain, a place for silent diplomacy.
Couldn’t agree more, Nancy! Get comfy, get happy, get busy and, ahem, put that issue to bed! 😉