What’s the best way to start a phone-sex call?

She looks like the woman of your dreams! But you’ve never spoken a word to her before… It’s not always easy to make that first call.  So we summoned the angels of phone sex — our Flirts — and asked them what’s the best way to get started.

ChynaBabyLala welcomes you:  “*Waves* Hey New Caller, I’d say the best way to start a phone sex call is by saying “hey, what are you up to?” or “I like your pics.” Being nice is great and makes the person on the other end quite comfy. Good icebreakers depend on what you’re looking for; if you want conversation mostly, break the ice by sharing what you’re doing and maybe your location or age. If you’re ready to get into stroking and everything instead of general conversation it’s great to share what turns you on. I like to hear a man or woman enjoying our time together. I think all ladies like to hear someone say they like how we look or that they really released well. A few customers tell me they appreciate me and it really puts a smile on my face :).”

Sinful Critter says just do it:  “The best way to start a phone-sex call is the old fashioned way — just do it. First take a slow deep breath and let your breath out slowly, very slowly. Making your first call can be a very heady thing so relax as best you can and know this: you’re going to enjoy this very much. My favorite icebreaker is a little laughter between us, it’s the best lubricant there is. But let me know what you’re interested in hearing or seeing from me. I love phone with cam and cam2cam too. Take your time and enjoy the wonderful hottie on the other end of the line.  Be sure I can hear you, speak to me and give me an idea of your wants and needs.  I can read your mind a little bit as I know you’re horny and want a happy ending, but I know there is more — there is always more you need.”

Your secrets are safe with CallEnvy: “Find a nice quiet place, lean back and let your mind escape in a wonderful fantasy role play or some great mutual masturbation. Whatever your fetish or kink is just have fun because that’s what phone sex is all about! One last tip… the call doesn’t have to be about phone sex. It can just be to say hello, to tell me what’s on your mind, and if you need to…. vent! Because, I am also a great listener 🙂 and your secrets are safe with me!”

MistressSherryElizabeth says, “I think the best way is to just be yourself. We as flirts understand most men are a bit nervous when calling. I for one will do my best to lead the conversation into the direction best suited for the caller. Also not to be scared to speak up if there is something you want to talk about. I also recommend looking around! Niteflirt has so many wonderful flirts, and I suggest trying a few and maybe exploring a few fetishes you enjoy. You will find the perfect Flirt you click with.”

KristaTeases takes you there and back: “Get your lube ready… crack those knuckles… go with the flow… savor the call. And definitely have an open mind. Try not to be shy or timid. Lean back… relax… close your eyes and let the voice of your fantasy flirt take you to the land of ecstasy and back.”

DominaNY knows just what to ask: “I always ask what’s making your dick hard and in exactly those words. Phone sex is entertainment, fantasy, a sexual masturbatory dreamworld in which it is my pleasure to delve deeply into what that little voice in your brain needs to express. I am an excellent listener and take all my cues from what you say, how you say it, and intuitively weave my input into your sexual needs. The more you open up to me, the more verbal detail I can provide that will bring you pleasure. It’s not about dominance, submission, fetishism, BDSM. It’s the theater of the mind, the sexual imagination, in which two consenting adults enter into a playful scene which fulfills your masturbatory fantasy. It’s phone sex — fun, entertaining, sexual, erotic, hypnotic, and above all else, relaxing and the best cure in the world for stress. Let your hair down, relax, enjoy, have fun. It’s a sweet, guilty pleasure.”

Shoot the breeze with MistressKate: “I like to hear what my customer likes, what makes them really hot, even mundane things such as how work is going. I have several trucker friends that just call to shoot the breeze. Be comfortable. Treat me with respect, relax and have some fun. My title may be Mistress, but the better I know you, the better I can tailor sessions and visits.”

Tell Princess Karin your fetish: “Relax. I’m a sensual domme and I’m not going to yell or scream. One thing I do love is for you to tell me about your fetish. I want to know all about it.”

Say hello to Sabina Erotica: “All a first time caller has to do is say ‘Hello.’ I know how to make the most timid and shy man feel comfortable in seconds. Every single Gent I have ever spoken to who was a first time caller, has expressed a great deal of relief, and wished he’d called Me sooner.”

Fetish Phone Sex says, “Knowing before you call a girl what exactly you are expecting from the call and being up front is helpful.  Although we are amazingly aware and intuative, we are not psychic, so tell me up front if you are looking to get a quick nut off or if you are looking have an experience. I will always ask the new caller what made him cum the last time he jerked off.”

Run wild with Kiwi Candy: “Be comfortable before you call. Go to a nice quiet place where you can be vocal or even give instruction. Be ready to have a great time getting off with me and to let your imagination run wild!”

Tell Goddess M Starr what you want: “I like when a caller knows what he wants and can tell me directly.  Sometimes it’s a fantasy role play, sometimes it’s guided masturbation and sometimes a fantasy girlfriend experience.  I enjoy all of these but it is very helpful to have some getting-to-know-you conversation first so that I am best able to give you what you want. The better you’re able to express what you want the more I am able to give it to you.”

Or, if you prefer being led, CamDiva will guide you to perfection: “Leave everything to me, I will take your hand and lead you to where I want to take you, by force if necessary. It is expected that you remain submissive, use perfect manners, and always clearly understand that my pleasure comes first. Through use of tease, denial, and edge play I will reprogram and morph you into the perfect male specimen.”