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Bravo to our stud from SoCal for being so open with his stance on relationships, marriage and love. A man who can communicate is like a diamond in the rough, his leading lady is one lucky gal! I hope his cravings and comfort with sex grows and flourishes as time goes by!

Sex : M

Age: 36

City: Los Angeles

Astrological Sign: Aries

Single (y/n): No

Do you see yourself marrying your significant other? If not, are you happy? If single do you see yourself getting married in the future?
I honestly don’t look very far in the future when it comes to relationships. I come from a long line of failed marriages and lives that have been torn apart by relationships that didn’t work out and I have been scared off from that. I honestly think that the way we view marriage in the USA can be somewhat toxic. People seem to think that a marriage is some sort of ownership agreement where they now possess their partner. I have never felt a need to tell someone else to do and I have an extremely hard time being told what to do. I believe that we are all individuals first and if you somehow find someone that you can come together with, that’s amazing. I don’t see marriage as two people coming together to form a whole and I think that concept has been the undoing of many marriages. I would never judge myself, of my life, as a success or failure based on whether or not I wed a partner eventually.

Do you believe in being with one person forever?
As I said above, I just don’t think about it much. I try as hard as possible to simply live in the moment. If I do wind up with someone forever, that’s wonderful. If I don’t, that will be ok as well. I just don’t think about it.

Would you be willing to try an open relationship? Do you believe they work?
I think they are incredibly difficult to make work. In theory the idea is romantic and I think it can supply the parties with the freedom that I think is so crucial for a relationship to truly thrive and blossom. In actuality though, I think that they just don’t seem to work out very often. Too much jealousy and too many insecurities just seem to be too large of a hurdle. For it to work I believe both parties would have to be mature to a level that most adults just simply aren’t. It’s a great theory though!

Would you try a threesome with your partner if you were in an exclusive relationship?
I don’t think so. Again, the idea is exciting but the actuality is just too destructive to a relationship.

What would you prefer? 2 guys 1 girl or vice versa?
Definitely 2 girls, 1 guy. Haha.

What is a fantasy of yours? Have you ever fulfilled it?
I think that because of my past history with seeing other people’s relationships have issues when I was a kid and my own personal issues it’s hard for me to delve too deep into fantasies. It’s hard enough for me to just focus on having a normal and loving sex life all on it’s own! I dearly hope that I am the outlier though. The idea is amazing and sexy and exciting! I wish I could immerse myself more into it.

If you’re single what dating sites have you used? If currently dating have you used dating sites in the past, if so, which ones? Dating Apps included.
Haven’t really used any to be honest. I do love living vicariously through my friends experiences though!

Did you find them to be useful?
N/A

Were you honest with profile? If not what were you dishonest about?
N/A

What is something that would fix in your current relationship (if anything)? If you’re single, why do you think you’re single?
I’m pretty happy. I always have issues being in relationships because of my own constant need for freedom. That really is my only issue, although it is a big one I admit!

Are you comfortable with telling you’re partner they aren’t up to snuff in the bedroom?
Ha. I probably would be. It would take some real confidence to hear it though, I would think.

Have you ever been in a relationship with a partner that wasn’t bringing the noise in the sheets? Did you tell he/she? If so, how did you break the bad news to them?
I’ve always been fine with telling my partner if I wanted something else and hearing that they wanted something else. No worries or problems there.

What’s the most embarrassing thing that has ever happened to you during a sex session?
Hmmmmm, I don’t get very embarrassed in bed to be honest. My only issue is not wanting to have sex with my partners as much as they want because I have my own personal issues to deal with. Can’t think of anything embarrassing offhand except wanting to want to have more sex!

Even though we live in a progressive world, do you still feel societal pressures to get married and have kids?
Ummmm, I honestly don’t but those pressures center so much more around women for societal, as well as biological reasons. I’ve never judged myself that way and I still don’t.

Lightning Round:

1. 1.What type of music makes you the horniest?
   Lounge house.
2. What is the sexiest most seductive thing anyone has ever done to you?
   Just completely having no inhibitions, which is something I struggle with.
3. What is sexier? Sex in a park on a blanket for a few to see, or discretely under a blanket on an airplane?
   Park.
4. Have you thought about sex today, if so how many times?
   Doesn’t everyone think about it all day?!
5. Do you miss sex with an ex?
   Doesn’t everyone a little?!
6. Do you think you have sex better now in your 30s or better in your 20s?
   Definitely now.
7. If better, why? If worse, why?
   Everything gets better with age.
8. Do you feel more complete and whole as a person when dating someone, single, or doesn’t matter (BE HONEST PEOPLE its anonymous)?
   Single.
9. What’s your favorite non-porno movie sex scene?
   I kinda like the ‘Black Swan’ scene with Mila and Natalie, although girl on girl doesn’t usually do that much for me. Ha.
10. Do you look at porn?
    Yes, sometimes.

Our fabulous female hailing from Utah isn’t a square but she definitely draws within the lines! Kudos to her for at least trying out the online dating scene though, open minds are key! I do think she should think twice when it comes to porn! 

Sex : Female

Age: 31

City: Salt Lake City

Astrological Sign: Virgo

Single (y/n): N

Do you see yourself marrying your significant other? If not, are you happy? If single do you see yourself getting married in the future?
I feel like the relationship is too young to determine whether or not he is someone I want to spend the rest of my life with. However, he has great qualities and the values/morals are all there.

Do you believe in being with one person forever?
Yes

Would you be willing to try an open relationship? Do you believe they work?
Hmmm, I think it depends on circumstances and how long you have been dating the person.

Would you try a threesome with your partner if you were in an exclusive relationship?
No

What would you prefer? 2 guys 1 girl or vice versa?
Haha neither

What is a fantasy of yours? Have you ever fulfilled it?
Maybe being more open to using toys.

If you’re single what dating sites have you used? If currently dating have you used dating sites in the past, if so, which ones? Dating Apps included.
I’ve done Match.com in the past

Did you find them to be useful?
Meh, it’s def a way to meet new people but I didn’t have any success with it. I was matched up with people who I had nothing in common with.

Were you honest with profile? If not what were you dishonest about?
Honest.

What is something that would fix in your current relationship (if anything)? If you’re single, why do you think you’re single?
Hmmm hard to say at this point in time b/c the relationship is still new and exciting.

Are you comfortable with telling you’re partner they aren’t up to snuff in the bedroom?
Yes, but being tactful about it.

Have you ever been in a relationship with a partner that wasn’t bringing the noise in the sheets? Did you tell he/she? If so, how did you break the bad news to them?
Yes it was mediocre – I didn’t say anything to that person. I tried to suggest things and say “when you do this it feels really good…” but I didn’t downright tell him he sucked.

What’s the most embarrassing thing that has ever happened to you during a sex session?
I was drunk and doing it backwards cowgirl style and fell off, hit my head and got a goose egg, oops!

Even though we live in a progressive world, do you still feel societal pressures to get married and have kids?
Now that I’ve entered my early 30’s, yes.

Lightning Round:

1. What type of music makes you the horniest?
   Usher Pandora radio
2. What is the sexiest most seductive thing anyone has ever done to you?
   Pulled a “pretty woman” and wore a tie, naked.
3. What is sexier? Sex in a park on a blanket for a few to see, or discretely under a blanket on an airplane?
   Sex in a park
4. Have you thought about sex today, if so how many times?
   Yes, once. It’s still early here!  haha
5. Do you miss sex with an ex?
   No
6. Do you think you have sex better now in your 30s or better in your 20s?
   In your 30’s
7. If better, why? If worse, why?
   I feel like in your 30’s you are more comfortable with yourself, your body, and who you are as a person.
8. Do you feel more complete and whole as a person when dating someone, single, or doesn’t matter (BE HONEST PEOPLE its anonymous )?
   I like being single – however the older I’ve gotten the sadder I feel when I am single. I feel I’m a pretty confident person and that I don’t need someone to complete me. However, the companionship and spending time with someone you care about and love, is nice. I’m too old to be going to the clubs and twerking it.
9. What’s your favorite non-porno movie sex scene?
   Hmm, off the top of my head it’s hard to think – I was always a fan of dirty dancing.
10. Do you look at porn?
    No

Our Southwestern Stallion clearly loves a naughty romp, but also believes in traditional love and courtship/marriage. I think its stellar balance to me. As a single woman it would behoove me to check out Austin, yeehaw!

Sex :33

Age: Male

City: Austin

Astrological Sign: Gemini

Single (y/n): N

Do you see yourself marrying your significant other? If not, are you happy? If single do you see yourself getting married in the future?
Yes

Do you believe in being with one person forever?
Yes

Would you be willing to try an open relationship? Do you believe they work?
No and No

Would you try a threesome with your partner if you were in an exclusive relationship?
No

What would you prefer? 2 guys 1 girl or vice versa?
Two Girls 1 guy

What is a fantasy of yours? Threesome. Have you ever fulfilled it?
Yes

If you’re single what dating sites have you used? If currently dating have you used dating sites in the past, if so, which ones? Dating Apps included.
Not single, never used them.

Were you honest with profile? If not what were you dishonest about?
N/A

What is something that would fix in your current relationship (if anything)? If you’re single, why do you think you’re single?
Understanding my significant other’s perspective better.

Are you comfortable with telling you’re partner they aren’t up to snuff in the bedroom? Partner now
Yes.

Have you ever been in a relationship with a partner that wasn’t bringing the noise in the sheets? Did you tell he/she? If so, how did you break the bad news to them?
Yes, didn’t tell her, just broke it off.

What’s the most embarrassing thing that has ever happened to you during a sex session?
Too drunk to get it up.

Even though we live in a progressive world, do you still feel societal pressures to get married and have kids?
Yes

Lightning Round:

1. What type of music makes you the horniest?
   Rock
2. What is the sexiest most seductive thing anyone has ever done to you?
   Getting head in a bathroom of a shitty bar.
3. What is sexier? Sex in a park on a blanket for a few to see, or discretely under a blanket on an airplane?
   Outside in a park.
4. Have you thought about sex today, if so how many times?
   Bout’ 10 give or take.
5. Do you miss sex with an ex?
   Yes
6. Do you think you have sex better now in your 30s or better in your 20s?
   More sex in the 20’s but better in the 30’s
7. If better, why? If worse, why?
   Practice makes perfect
8. Do you feel more complete and whole as a person when dating someone, single, or doesn’t matter (BE HONEST PEOPLE its anonymous )?
   More complete with someone there by your side
9. What’s your favorite non-porno movie sex scene?
   “Monsters Ball” (Halle Berry)
10. Do you look at porn?
    Yes

Our leading lady from Montana has no shame in her game when it comes to online dating, she’s ready for love, and has a healthy libido. Cheers to her, and here’s to hoping she finds a man that can take her breath away in the bedroom, and watch “300” with her. 

Sex : Female

Age: 37

City: Bozeman

Astrological Sign: Libra

Single (y/n): Y

Do you see yourself marrying your significant other? If not, are you happy? If single do you see yourself getting married in the future?
Yes, I hope to find and marry my significant other in the future. I am happy, single or married.

Do you believe in being with one person forever?
Yes.

Would you be willing to try an open relationship?
Once the relationship is committed, No.  

Do you believe they work?
No.

Would you try a threesome with your partner if you were in an exclusive relationship?
No.

What would you prefer? 2 guys 1 girl or vice versa?
Neither.

What is a fantasy of yours?
To have sex.

Have you ever fulfilled it?
Once or twice.

If you’re single what dating sites have you used?
Lavalife.com, match.com, eharmony.com 

If currently dating have you used dating sites in the past, if so, which ones? Dating Apps included. N/A

Did you find them to be useful?
Ye

Were you honest with profile? Yes.

What is something that would fix in your current relationship (if anything)? If you’re single, why do you think you’re single?
I think relationships take a lot more time & patience then they did in the past. With more options available for each individual (including career, location, lifestyle…) it makes it more difficult to ‘commit’, it’s hard enough to commit to one’s own lifestyle (this has been my problem). More time is needed to build foundation, trust and to understand the other person’s way of life… routine… likes, dislikes

Are you comfortable with telling you’re partner they aren’t up to snuff in the bedroom?
I would be.

Have you ever been in a relationship with a partner that wasn’t bringing the noise in the sheets? Did you tell he/she? If so, how did you break the bad news to them?
Just walk away.

What’s the most embarrassing thing that has ever happened to you during a sex session?
I don’t know.

Even though we live in a progressive world, do you still feel societal pressures to get married and have kids?
Sometimes but not necessarily from specific things people have said. Mostly from the community I live in and I let those thoughts define that pressure. But people in most communities are tolerant of a various of lifestyles and are non judgmental (as long as the respect is mutual).

Lightning Round:

1.      What type of music makes you the horniest?
What doesn’t work for me is jazz or rock.

2.      What is the sexiest most seductive thing anyone has ever done to you?
If only I can put it into words when someone just owns you in bed, passionately and demanding but hot and tender.

3.      What is sexier? Sex in a park on a blanket for a few to see, or discretely under a blanket on an airplane?
Park, blanket.

4.      Have you thought about sex today, if so how many times? Before this survey, probably once or twice.
While doing this survey… A LOT!

5.      Do you miss sex with an ex?
Yes.

6.      Do you think you have sex better now in your 30s or better in your 20s?
30s.

7.      If better, why? If worse, why?
I was more reserved in my 20s.

8.      Do you feel more complete and whole as a person when dating someone, single, or doesn’t matter (BE HONEST PEOPLE its anonymous)?
Doesn’t matter.

9.      What’s your favorite non-porno movie sex scene?
300.

10.  Do you look at porn?
Yes.

Atlanta is not called HOTLANTA because of the heat, daaayum. Our gentleman from the dirty south loves experimenting to an extent, and is somewhat a hopeless romantic for attempting a long distance relationship. Let’s cross our fingers his fear of commitment can be conquered. I haven’t seen “Butterfly Effect 2”, I’ll have to check out the buttery nipples for myself!

Sex : Male

Age: 35

City: Atlanta

Astrological Sign: Cancer

Single (y/n): No

Do you see yourself marrying your significant other? If not, are you happy? If single do you see yourself getting married in the future?
I see myself marrying and I would like to think that the special person in my life currently, would be that person. However, I have seen that my commitment to relationships lacks in the past and I need to be able to commit in order for the relationship to be taken to the next level. Marriage scares the hell out of me.

Do you believe in being with one person forever?
No, I’ve been with multiple people. However, I do believe that marriage is a commitment and requires both parties to be fully involved. It seems like with today’s society, once the times get tough, people tend to dip.

Would you be willing to try an open relationship? Do you believe they work?
I’ve been in an open relationship and as long as both sides are honest, do believe they can work. However, I tend to believe that people eventually want to move to the next level or end the relationship.

Would you try a threesome with your partner if you were in an exclusive relationship?
Probably not. I think it would cause more issues than help. Think this is more of a thing for people experimenting and trying new things.

What would you prefer? 2 guys 1 girl or vice versa?
I would prefer 2girls1guy but as long as there is no touching between boys and depending on the situation. Basic Rules? Swords touching is not cool! DP? No thank you.

What is a fantasy of yours? Have you ever fulfilled it?
I’ve had a ton of fantasies and some of them have been fulfilled. However, I continue to think/dream/fantasize about things and try to make some of them happen. Standard thoughts and nothing too extreme.

Sex in the rain? Completed.

Sex outside/public? Completed, etc…

If you’re single what dating sites have you used? If currently dating have you used dating sites in the past, if so, which ones? Dating Apps included.
N/A

Did you find them to be useful?
N/A

Were you honest with profile? If not what were you dishonest about?
N/A

What is something that would fix in your current relationship (if anything)? If you’re single, why do you think you’re single?
Our current locations. Long distance relationships suck and don’t work but I am trying as the person is suppose to be moving to me.

Are you comfortable with telling you’re partner they aren’t up to snuff in the bedroom?
Yes, I wouldn’t be harsh or blunt about it. I would try to show my partner what I like and what not. I would hope that they would tell me what I was doing wrong for them and showing me things they like. Think sex is key to a relationship and needs to be strong.

Have you ever been in a relationship with a partner that wasn’t bringing the noise in the sheets? Did you tell he/she? If so, how did you break the bad news to them?
Yes, I’ve been with partners that did not feel comfortable with me or themselves. I just think some people are confident in themselves and their body. I just tried to show what I liked. For partners I wasn’t fully involved with, I tended to just walk away from a repeat.

What’s the most embarrassing thing that has ever happened to you during a sex session? Impotence. Sucks when my mind takes control and I start to over think.

Even though we live in a progressive world, do you still feel societal pressures to get married and have kids?
Yes, family and friends look at me strangely when I say I have never been married. It seems like people look at me with even more sadness than someone that has been married and divorced.

Lightning Round:

1. What type of music makes you the horniest?
R&B/Hip Hop/Rap genre

2. What is the sexiest most seductive thing anyone has ever done to you?
Taken control.

3.What is sexier? Sex in a park on a blanket for a few to see, or discretely under a blanket on an airplane?
Discretely under a blanket on the airplane.

4. Have you thought about sex today, if so how many times?
Yes, not sure how many times but more than once.

5. Do you miss sex with an ex?
Miss? Not really miss but still remember some of the more memorable times.

6. Do you think you have sex better now in your 30s or better in your 20s?
I feel more confident now which leads me to think Im better however I believe I was less self conscious then which allowed me to go further than I would probably now.

If better, why? If worse, why?
See Above.

Do you feel more complete and whole as a person when dating someone, single, or doesn’t matter (BE HONEST PEOPLE its anonymous )?
I’ve noticed that I’ve basically gone from relationship to relationship with little single time in between. Which leads me to believe I need a partner to feel whole.

What’s your favorite non-porno movie sex scene?
Butterfly Effect 2: Buttery Nipples for the win!

Do you look at porn?
Yes, helps release stress and anxiety if you’re not having constant sex.

As a thirty something single female, I often find myself wondering how my peers are doing when it comes to relationships, love, and sex. I think to myself “Do people really have open relationships, are people fulfilling sexual fantasies, does everyone want to get married, am I a dead fish in the sack compared to others?” I conducted a survey with a handful of 30 year olds (men and women) and I was pleasantly surprised with the answers. People be loving sex, which isn’t shocking but I think more folks want that true love to last more than they admit. Read our first story from a sweet dirty thirty +1 chick! Sounds like she needs to put her big girl pants on and get back in the saddle!

Sex : Female

Age: 31

City: New York

Astrological Sign: Leo

Single (y/n): Y

Do you see yourself marrying your significant other? If not, are you happy? If single do you see yourself getting married in the future?
Yes, I see myself spending a huge portion of my life with one person, if we get married that’s cool too!

Do you believe in being with one person forever?
I still have a little faith, my parents have been together for 31 years so it must jive for some, people are fickle when it comes to relationships these days – I truly believe you need to put the effort into it like anything else in life that you want to flourish.

Would you be willing to try an open relationship? Do you believe they work?
No, I don’t believe they work, at least not for me. I’d be lying to myself if I thought that one would be.

Would you try a threesome with your partner if you were in an exclusive relationship?
No, In this case sharing is NOT caring. 

What would you prefer? 2 guys 1 girl or vice versa?
If I ever did indulge I’m not sure how I’d have it. I would think 2 girls would be awkward, and with 2 guys it seems intimidating, so probably neither!

What is a fantasy of yours? Have you ever fulfilled it?
I’m pretty open in the bedroom, so things, I’ve wanted I’ve tried.  I evolve a lot so I’m sure in a year or so I’ll have a new fantasy to experiment with.

If you’re single what dating sites have you used? If currently dating have you used dating sites in the past, if so, which ones? Dating Apps included.
I have not.

Did you find them to be useful?
N/A

Were you honest with profile? If not what were you dishonest about?
N/A

What is something that would fix in your current relationship (if anything)? If you’re single, why do you think you’re single?
I think I’m single because I’ve been dealing with a career upheaval and lots of stress, so I don’t really put myself out there, so to speak.

Are you comfortable with telling you’re partner they aren’t up to snuff in the bedroom? Absolutely, in the sweetest way possible of course. Sex is an important component of a relationship, you need to communicate.

Have you ever been in a relationship with a partner that wasn’t bringing the noise in the sheets? Did you tell he/she? If so, how did you break the bad news to them?
To be honest I think everyone that I’ve been in an exclusive relationship has been enjoyable in bed. I think one casual encounter sucked, I never went THERE again.  If I was dating someone I’d just be open and loving about it.

What’s the most embarrassing thing that has ever happened to you during a sex session? Nothing off hand, maybe if my landscaping wasn’t up to snuff! Which is like NEVER. 

Even though we live in a progressive world, do you still feel societal pressures to get married and have kids?
|Yes, more so now at 31.

Lightning Round:

1. What type of music makes you the horniest? Lounge House
2. What is the sexiest most seductive thing anyone has ever done to you? I love men that take charge. One memory stains my brain… he took me out of the shower laid me on the bed and went down on me, and then we had great sex!
3. What is sexier? Sex in a park on a blanket for a few to see, or discretely under a blanket on an airplane? Park.
4. Have you thought about sex today, if so how many times? Yes, once or twice. More after doing this survey.
5. Do you miss sex with an ex? Sometimes
6. Do you think you have sex better now in your 30s or better in your 20s? I would say right now my 20s because I haven’t had much of it lately.
7. If better, why? If worse, why? The real answer is that sex in my 30s is great because hell you’ve had years of practice by now!
8. Do you feel more complete and whole as a person when dating someone, single, or doesn’t matter (BE HONEST PEOPLE its anonymous )? I don’t mind being single, there are tons of great things going on in my life but how great can it be if you can’t share it with someone else?!
9. What’s your favorite non-porno movie sex scene? Hmmm
   “In the Cut” with Mark Ruffalo and Meg Ryan.
10. Do you look at porn? Everyday that ends in Y! In reality, yes once in awhile.