NEWS: Safe Sex…For Your Heart!?

This article may be a bit more on the serious side but hey we like to talk about sex, and of course we want everyone to be happy, healthy, and hot & bothered (in a good way). I’ve written in the past about sexual intercourse being an enjoyable physical activity that is beneficial when it comes to health, even heart health! This piece is focused on safety with sex after a heart attack. I can only imagine if you’ve had the unfortunate experience of enduring a heart attack, getting back in the saddle might be a bit scary.

According to the American Heart Association and the European Society of Cardiology people should openly talk to their physicians about sex and intimacy post a heart attack. Whether it’s regarding taking Viagra, what sexual positions are safest, or how frequently you engage in sexy time, its important and you should feel secure with asking these questions, its better to be safe then sorry!

“Sexual health is an important part of the overall health of the individual, even for older folks“, said Elaine Steinke, a researcher and professor of nursing at Wichita State University in Kansas. Steinke was the main author of the statement published in the heart association’s Circulation journal and the European Heart Journal.

Many heart patients can carry on with their sex lives as long as they’ve had the appropriate check ups post surgery, here is a short list of precautions from the statement:


* Before resuming sex, make sure you can engage in moderate physical activity, such as walking briskly up two flights of stairs, without chest pain, breathlessness or other symptoms.

* If moderate activity is too strenuous, avoid intercourse but not intimacy: hugging and kissing may be ok.

* Have sex in a comfortable, familiar place and avoid things that could add stress to the experience, including extramarital affairs.

 

There are a few more preventative measures listed that you can check out at Sci-Tech Today. It sounds to me that resuming intimacy after heart issues is encouraged as long as you have your doctor’s approval and obviously if you feel strong enough to. You deserve that primal pleasure like everyone else, just be a bit more careful when getting back in the game!

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Get to Know “MeanMark”…

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How did you begin in the world of adult chat and phone sex?
Through a friend.

What is your favorite part of being a flirt on NiteFlirt?
Acting out my fantasies and getting paid for it.

Is there any kind of specific fetish that you yourself enjoy?
A pretty woman with pretty feet.

what erotic fantasy would you like enacted on you?
A pretty woman naked on her knees and licking my feet.

If you were some sort of sexy erotic food, what would you be?
An apple.

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NEWS: To spoon or not to spoon!?

I actually find sleeping patterns and nocturnal behavior fascinating, I for one love to canoodle up to my lovah. However, once I’m asleep get to your side of the bed! I came across a recent survey on the Huff Post and it revealed that half of British couples turn their backs and cheeks away from their significant other when its time for zzzzs.

Relationship Psychologist, Corrine Sweet states that your sleeping rituals can expose relationship woes: “During sleep, you cannot fake your body language. This is the time when you are honest, vulnerable and your sleeping position can reveal a lot about your relationship.

I’m no psychologist but I don’t need my boyfriend to be barnacled on my back to know he loves me. Call me crazy! Corrine goes on to explain:

Couples fall into habitual ways of sleeping together that suits their personalities and personal preferences. These are negotiated at the outset, so if something changes in how they sleep together, this can reflect a change in their relationship and cause concern for the other partner.”

Every couple is different and if it’s cozy for the two of you to be tangled up all night that’s fabulous, but if you need your space on the Sealy that’s totally understandable. The best time for spooning is in the morning anyway, nothing better than waking up to a probing missile.

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NEWS: I scream, you scream, we all scream for…

Who doesn’t love Ben & Jerry’s whimsical flavor names such as ‘Americone Dream’, ‘Karamel Sutra’, and ‘Phish Food’!? They’re cheeky and fun and lets not forget they are truly delectable treats! A Southern California porn company loved them so much they were inspired to use them as titles for their naughty films. Unfortunately this didn’t fly with the iconic ice cream company. The porn company, Caballero Video (AKA Rodax Distributors Inc) came to an agreement with Ben & Jerry’s that they wouldn’t release their DVDs that had any association with Ben & Jerry’s products.

Caballero is prohibited to release their Ben & Cherry’s films which included some blockbuster hits like” “Boston Cream Thighs”, “Chocolate Fudge Babes” and “Peanut Butter D Cups.” Clearly Caballero’s movie titles were too similar to Ben & Jerry’s ice cream flavors… Caballero’s packaging even had “Porno’s Finest!” Ben & Jerry’s slogan is “Vermont’s Finest”. Just typing out this has caused the heartiest of laughs. I can see why Ben & Jerry’s wanted their coveted flavor names separated from porn but you gotta hand it to Caballero for their erotic play on words and balls to try and pull it off!

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NEWS: Mum’s the word

Well I guess this style of dating throws the whole “you’re beautiful inside and out” thought out the door! The UK is trendsetting with a new style of speed dating, talk about an awkward silence. Shh! Dating is the craze in London’s dating world, people show up to these speed dating affairs and have to keep their pie holes shut the whole damn time, not a peep for 2 hours! Shockingly enough these events have been pretty successful, and founder Adam Taffler wants to kick this up a notch and hold events all throughout the UK. 

I’d be lost at a Shh! Dating event, do you post up against the wall and shell out the duck face all night!? The brave Lucy Cavendish from The Daily Mail took it upon herself to give it a go:

As they’re unable to use their dizzying wit or repartee to distract us, I can’t help but make snap judgments based on their appearances – too short, too beardy, too bald,” she said of the 14 men at the event. “But no doubt they are doing the same about us.”

Dating these days is shallow enough, I’m not sure this is helping the cause. On the flip side physical attraction is the first thing that draws two people together, the chit- chat usually comes second, naturally just the tip is third. What are your thoughts?!

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NEWS: Sex Addict or Sex Enthusiast?

Looks like you can’t use the old excuse “I suffer from sex addiction” anymore, no siree you’re just a horny toad! According to UCLA researchers sex addiction doesn’t seem to be a disorder, these findings can be found on the Socioaffective Neuroscience and Psychology journal online. So whether you have an obsessive affection for laying pipe or constant yearning to polish the knob you’re just a hogger, it’s no disorder, so don’t even go there, so they say.

According to the Huffington Post, “The study involved 39 men and 13 women who reported having problems controlling their viewing of sexual images. UCLA scientist Nicole Prause and her colleagues monitored the volunteers’ brains while showing them erotic images.”“If they indeed suffer from hypersexuality, or sexual addiction, their brain response to visual sexual stimuli could be expected to be higher, in much the same way that the brains of cocaine addicts have been shown to react to images of the drug in other studies,” stated in a UC press release.

Nicole Prause stated that the hypersexuality might be caused by a higher libido, not a sex disorder. Wanting to have sex isn’t a crime but there are folks out there that have non-stop cravings to fornicate and end up ruining important relationships, and sometimes their lives. Like anything else in life, too much of anything can be toxic! If you have a problem with humping, I’d suggest seeking a therapist or reaching out for help… or there’s a chance you don’t have a problem and you’re just hanging out with a bunch of prudes. For the whole story click here.

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Q&A with “Sexy HypnoGirl”

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Q: Please give us a brief introduction of yourself for those unfamiliar of you.
A: My name is Nicole, I am 32 years old (I know I look and sound much younger) I live in a small town in Kentucky. I moved here 7 years ago so I could be closer to My mother. I am the youngest of 7. I have 5 sisters and 1 brother.
Before moving to Kentucky I lived in Florida, where I was raised by My grandmother. I guess that’s how I came by the Princess mindset. Hypnosis is more than just a fun way to earn a living (although it is very fun) hypnosis is My passion. I plan on practicing till I have either gotten tired of it or am no longer having fun with it. (I doubt that will ever happen)

Q: I have read that you got started in hypnosis in a hypnotherapist office after high school? Can you elaborate on this a bit?
A: A friend of the family was the receptionist/secretary in a hypnotherapist office. She was pregnant and taking a leave of absence to have her baby. She arranged for Me to fill in for her while she was away. While there I would listen to the hypnotherapist doing sessions, and I was fascinated and captivated. Whenever he had a female client he would leave the door ajar so that I could see what was happening and he would explain to the client that it was policy to have another female either in the room or watching from the next room. The hypnotherapist would also do sessions for Me when I would get a migraine. That’s where and when My passion for hypnosis all started.

Q: What was it that gave you interest in using hypnosis not just for it’s obvious therapeutic aspects, but in a more erotic manner?
A: I’ve always enjoyed controlling men with My mind and My body so using hypnosis is the next obvious progression. When I was in Florida I worked part-time at a radio station doing a morning public service show. I would always get calls after the show from many different men wanting to date Me. They said My voice was a turn on. So I decided to use My voice to do something I really wanted to do, Control men.

Q: Have you found hypnosis to be useful in enhancing sexual responses and experiences with clients over the phone?
A:Over then phone is more difficult than in person only because you can’t see how the person is responding. Over the last few years I have developed a pretty good ear for listening to the subtle signs that the client gives. (Breathing, the way they respond to direct questions, ect..) Hypnosis is very useful no matter how you use it. (Sexual pleasure, Medical, Self-improvement)

Q: Can you take us through the process of a typical session you have with one of your clients? How would one prepare first before talking to you before a session? How is the session itself typically like?
A: I cannot answer this fully only because no two sessions are alike. I try to find out what the person is really into but ultimately it all comes down to turning them into a loving, caring, obedient submissive. The only thing you have to do to prepare for a session with Me is get comfortable, make sure We/we won’t be disturbed then pick up the phone and call Me. I would prefer that you check to make sure you can spend at least 20 minutes with Me to get a full session. The client should also know that there are many times I will not allow them to relieve themselves during the call, its all up to Me in the end.

Q: When one listens to your work, you give off a sense of being very sweet and innocent in your sessions? Do you feel this has aided you in your hypnosis career, and if so how?
A: I do sound very young and very innocent. I believe this is because I have never smoked and I rarely drink. I take care of Myself and I want to be the best Me I can be. The sweetness is coming through because that’s just My personality. I think that by sounding so young and innocent it disarms the listener, and they let go before they realize it. But soon they see I am not as innocent as they thought. I do feel that My voice has played a part in advancing My career in that it is very different than most other hypnotist. Not that one sound is better or worse than another. Diversity is what makes life interesting. I almost hate being called a Hypno-Domme simply because I believe submission is a gift that is given freely and not forced out of the submissive. I see Myself as more of a Princess, but I do call Myself a Soft Domme on My page.

Q: Some hypnotist seems to specialize in certain areas of erotic hypnosis. Some use hypnosis to enhance BDSM sessions. Others Financial domination. Am I correct in the belief that you specialize in nurturing feelings of true love and addiction in your clients?
A: You are very correct I do specialize in this simply because I do what feels right for Me. Like I told you this is My passion, so I do what makes Me happy. What woman doesn’t love having hordes of men worshiping Her and telling Her how beautiful She is and how much they love and adore Her. Like I said its all about Me.

Q. Do you often use erotic hypnosis to help change your submissive’s to better themselves and their lives? If so, in what way do you feel that this is important?
A: I do want them to better themselves because a happy healthy submissive is going to be around for a lot longer. Not to mention part of a submissive’s job is to take care of his Princess. How can he do this if he is not able to take care of himself? I don’t put the entire focus of My sessions on improving themselves but I do want them to be able to take care of Us/us both. So its up to them to decide in what way they use the suggestions that are given.

Q. Is there anyone who you feel has inspired you as a hypnotist through their work?
A: I do not listen to other female hypnotist because I want to remain very unique in the way I do sessions. I do not want to try to imitate somebody else. I really like My style and if I were to start looking around I could fall into the trap of “wow maybe that works better”. Then I would lose who I am. I guess the only one I can give credit to for inspiring Me to become a hypnotist is the hypnotherapist I worked for in Florida. (clap clap cheer cheer thanks Ralph)

Q: What is it that you feel is your best attribute as a female hypnotist? Your voice? Personality? What is it that keeps people wanting to experience your sessions?
A: All of the above, plus I genuinely care about My submissive’s. If you are going to submit yourself to somebody wouldn’t  you like to know that they care about you?

Q. What are some facts about Princess Nicole that you feel would shock some people if they knew?
A: I am a gamer I love online fantasy role-play games. I met the man I am dating playing EverQuest. I have also played City of Hero’s, Dark Age of Camelot, Anarchey Online, WarHammer Online and World of Warcraft. In each of these games I played a healing class of some kind. One of My submissive’s plays World of Warcraft, so he has changed servers and now serves Me in game as well. Gathering things I need helping My mom in game when she plays, whatever I need. After all I am a Princess.

Q. Why do you think erotic hypnosis appeals to so many people?
A: So many people have such highly stressful jobs. They feel like the weight of the world is on them. They are the ones that are in charge and the ones that have to make all the hard decisions. Not to mention the responsibility that they have at home. Many clients have families that they are responsible for. Through erotic hypnosis they can escape all of that even if it is only for 15 minutes or an hour at a time. They don’t have to think or decide or do anything, they can simply submit themselves to another person and escape.

Q: What would you like those who may be interested in your work to know about you before taking that first step?
A: One should know I take what I do very seriously and so should they. I completely give them all of My attention during a session so I expect complete and total respect. I do not tolerate clients that call and after a few minutes hang up. I will not put up with anybody that thinks I am there to serve them. Just because I sound sweet don’t think I will tolerate rude or bossy submissive’s. I will care for and respect the submissive that knows his place. DO NOT play games with Me! I will not continue with any caller that tries to play another hypnotist and I against each other. I hate it when a submissive feels they can demand their way. Don’t over step any of these boundaries and you will see I am one of the kindest and most caring person you will ever talk with.

Q. If you were going to an island for a long time, and could only bring one of your own sessions with you… which one would you pick and why?
A: Wow, this is something I had never even thought about. My sessions are all designed and geared toward submissive males. Since I am neither submissive nor male I don’t have any that would do the trick for Me. I would do self hypnosis no need to bring a session after all I am the session LOL.

Q: What future plans do you have in store for your fans and submissive’s alike?
A: I feel like I am growing not only as a hypnotist but as a person as well. Those submissive’s that hang around get to go on this growing journey with Me.

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NEWS: Teeny Weenie Winner

If you guys remember awhile back I had announced that there would be a Smallest Penis contest in Brooklyn, NY on July 20th… well it happened and the results are in! Hats off to Nick Gilronan winner of the prestigious title of smallest peen in Brooklyn. Gilronan has no shame in his game, he was honored to win, and proud of his petite pecker. Nick Gilronan wasn’t shy about showing off his 2-inch monster either, he stated:

“Besides my day job I’ve been doing modeling and acting for the past 7 years. Acting is done in front of a group of people so I was comfortable there. And sometimes my modeling jobs are nude art for classes, so wearing some skimpy clothing wasn’t a problem either.”

I think that Nick Gilronan is a brave dude, embracing your body no matter what you’ve got to offer is the boss attitude to have, and lets not forget confidence is sexy. We come in all shapes and sizes and a donkey dong might not be your cup of tea. Congratulations, Nick!

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NEWS: You’ll Never Stop Pedaling!

Riding bikes as a means of transportation is on the up and up. You’ve got Citi-Bike in NYC and many other bike sharing programs in metro areas. I applaud the efforts, it’s environmentally safe and its good to get off our asses and pedal! If you’re a true blue couch potato and need a bit more of a push to exercise, then perhaps you may need a Happy Ride!

Happy Ride is a vibrating bicycle seat that was cleverly crafted by the UK sex toy company sexshop365. This tantalizing invention slips right over your bike seat and provides you with vibrating sensations as you stroll along. It gets better, the bike seat from the gods comes with a remote to control vibrating speed! I hate to be a joy kill but I find it hard to do much of anything but moan and roll around during an orgasm so operating a bicycle would be a bit tricky, but I’m up for the challenge!

Training wheels are off people, cancel your spinning class and try out Happy Ride. For the full story check out the Daily Mail UK

Obviously a song comes to mind:

Happy Hump Day! Get to work! 😉

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NEWS: Who says dress up is just for Halloween?!

Not to keep drilling on the issue, well actually I want the drilling to continue hence my articles on sex benefits, et cetera. I came across an article on the Huff Post UK that exposed what British couples do to stay raaaanndyyy. The research was carried out by online pharmacy UKMedix, they had 1,712 participants that were all 18 years of age and currently shacked up with their lovah. 35% chose role-playing to liven their sex lives. The kicker is half of them chose to wear uniforms; doesn’t surprise me at all, Fleet Week in NYC is basically a holiday for horny single women.

The survey revealed that 62% did in fact have a “special” way of reigniting the flame in the bedroom:

  • Role playing- 35%
  • Sex Toys- 34%
  • Exhibitionism (Loud/ Outdoor/ Public Sex)- 28%
  • Celibacy/ ‘Sex Breaks’- 25%
  • Open Relationship/ Threesome- 21%

I think I’d be open to all of them except the threesome, no judging on my end, I just know that I’m shitty at sharing! It just goes to show you that if there’s a will there’s a way. You just need to put forth the effort. Whether you decide to play nurse and patient, or test out a 2-headed vibrating dildo, I hope you’re able to evolve and rediscover that lost spark as a couple!

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