How Masturbation Can Help You Orgasm With a Partner

Posted on August 11, 2015 by NiteFlirt

best_phone_sex_niteflirt_orgasmfaceIt’s really quite simple: to have better orgasms with someone else, you should start by having them by yourself. That’s because figuring out your own self pleasure can help you instruct others how to get you off. Here’s how:

  1. Train your clit to be more responsive
    By masturbating, you’re actually “training” your clitoris to respond to different types of stimulation. The more practice you get exposing your clit to different sensations, the easier it will be to get off with your partner. When masturbating, try switching up the strokes, the amount of speed or pressure, different positions, and the number of fingers you use. Learning new ways to pleasure yourself is key to keeping it fresh and fun with a partner.
  2. Show your partner what you like
    Truly, the best way to get what you like from a partner is by showing them yourself. Try masturbating in front of them—it’ll be instructional and fun to watch! After going solo for a bit, have them put their hand over yours so they can see what you like. When they get a feel for what gets you hot, try tag-teaming your clit for a while, switching off hands every few minutes.
  3. During sex, give yourself a hand
    Ain’t nothing wrong with giving yourself what you like during sex. Often that involves stimulating your clit with your fingers or with a vibrator during the act. This is especially easy to do in certain positions, like doggy style or woman on top.

In the mood for some self pleasure yourself? We’re always here to lend a helping hand!

Check out more tips about how masturbating can help you orgasm with a partner here.

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Meet the First Porn Star to be Sent Into Space

Posted on August 10, 2015 by NiteFlirt

Pornhub has ambitions to use the space tourism industry to make the first ever space porn! The porn site is trying to raise three million dollars through an Indiegogo campaign to send porn stars Eve Lovia and Johnny Sins to fuck in zero-gravity. But with a little over a week left and only $235,000 raised, its featured porn stars might not be able to join the ultimate mile high club after all. Thankfully, CoCo Brown is stepping up to become the first porn star to be sent into space.

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She’s part of an elite program that will train 100 people to travel into space by earning their astronaut wings for the bargain price of $100,000 (new technology has made space tourism much more affordable now than when it first started—think $20 million for an hour of sightseeing). Although CoCo Brown won’t be testing out what space sex is like for all us curious and randy earthlings, she is excited to learn if her boobs will float. She says, “You notice the rest of your body losing gravity but I’d like to see… Do fake boobs do something weird in space? I don’t know…” Floating boobs will have to do until the day when porn will boldly go where no sex film has gone before! Space porn: the New Final Frontier.

Want to have some wild, gravity-defying experiences yourself? Three, two, one… blast off!

Check out more about the first adult film performer to be sent into space!

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Vibrators Don’t Have to Look Like Dicks Anymore

Posted on August 9, 2015 by NiteFlirt

best_phone_sex_niteflirt_phallicVibrators new non-cock shapes are changing the face of sex toys in innovative ways. Sex toy manufacturers like JimmyJane and LELO are moving past the days when vibrators had to look like huge cocks. What they realized—and what more and more sex toy manufacturers are starting to realize—is that a vibrator only has one function, so as long as it’s getting you off, really it can look like anything.

This idea is what’s behind high-end vibrators increasingly abstract shapes that no longer simply replicate the male or female anatomy. If it ain’t a dildo, which by its nature requires a cock-shape, then a vibrator can take on totally new shapes. A writer discussing the history of vibrator design in Fusion says, “But why—if women and couples are looking for something more than their own, very real human parts—would they want a plastic knock-off of those same parts in bed?” That’s why these days you can get a vibrator that looks like a surf board, a cute little lemon, a cone, and even a hands-free vibrator that looks sort of like Jim Henson’s floppy eared muppet Rowlf the Dog (check them out below)—all designed to get you off in innovative new ways!

Feel like having some sexy, outside the box experiences yourself? We are all about innovative ways for getting off here!

Check out more about vibrators that don’t look like cocks here.

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How to Have Sex on the Beach

Posted on August 8, 2015 by NiteFlirt

Screen Shot 2015-08-06 at 4.12.01 PMWhat is it about the beach that makes people want to get frisky? Is it the minimal clothing, the lathering up with sun screen, or the amazing feeling of ocean waves crashing that puts people in the mood? Whatever the reason, if you’re dying to get wet n’ wild at the beach, we can help. Here are some tips to help you make the most of a day (of fucking) at the beach:

  1. Do Your Research
    While spontaneous sex is great, having spontaneous sex out in public is not a smart move. Before going at it you should do some recon about sweet spots that will be perfect for a sexy tryst. Less populated locations with coves, secret nooks, or large rocks are perfect. Walk around and also do some internet research to find the perfect place.
  2. Don’t Get Caught
    Don’t be like those people who go at it in the middle of the day with beach-goers basically looking on. Do it at night, and make sure there’s no people around. In short, be quick, be discreet, and be quiet.
  3. Watch Out For Sand Getting in Sensitive Areas!
    Sand is lovely on the feet—but it is definitely not lovely all up in your nether regions! Make sure you avoid this by getting it on in positions that will prevent sand-in-the-crotch. Doggy style is great, or just fucking upright against something like a rock or a lifeguard tower. Woman on top could also work—just be careful!
  4. Consider Alternatives
    If fucking on the beach is too hard to pull off, why not try getting it on in the water? The water will conceal what’s going on below the surface. It is also much easier to give hand jobs and blow jobs on the sand than it is to fuck, especially if you can keep yourself concealed under a blanket or a beach umbrella. It’ll give new meaning to the expression “More fun than a day at the beach!”

Of course, if you don’t want sand in your bits you can always just give us a call.  We’ll make sure you feel like you’re having sex on the beach.

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Photographer Captures What 14 Women Look Like Cumming

Posted on August 7, 2015 by NiteFlirt

Photographer Lauren Crow is trying to revolutionize female pleasure one photograph at a time. Her latest series turns the lens on women right when they’re orgasming in order to show female sexuality at its most sweaty, honest, and natural state. Crow photographs women while their masturbating to depict real women having real orgasms, without anything faked or enhanced, as a reaction to how female orgasms are often shown in movies and porn (check out the images below).

Crow wants to break away from popular depictions of female sexuality that so often hide women’s true naughty natures in order to pander to audience’s expectations of what they’d like to see from sexual women on screen. She says, “In terms of female pleasure, we are rarely shown what it really looks like.” Crow wants to change that by focusing on real images of women climaxing—in all their messy, sweaty, and animalistic glory. Through these images, the photographer hopes to empower women to embrace their beautiful bodies, pleasure, and sexuality. Right on!

Feel like celebrating female sexuality in all its honest splendor? Three cheers for sweaty, natural pleasure!

Here’s 14 images of women orgasming:

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7 Surprising Facts About Women Who Watch Porn

Posted on August 6, 2015 by NiteFlirt

One year ago, Pornhub analyzed the site’s data to figure out what women want from the porn they watch. This year, they followed up with the same research to see what’s changed since then. Here are some of the surprising facts they found about women who watch porn:

  1. The most searched for categories are “lesbian,” “threesome,” and “squirt”
    Also, “black,” “cartoon,” and “scissoring” have become more popular since 2014.
  2. More women searched for “real celebrity sex tapes” and “real massage cams”
    Since the previous year, there was a 1,000% increase in searches in each category (respectively).
  3. Women want to see reality TV stars more than porn stars
    Interestingly, Kim Kardashian and Farrah Abraham were the two most searched for “porn stars” on Pornhub.
  4. Women search for male porn stars like James Deen and Bruce Venture way more than men
    Well, they are considered porn stars specifically for the ladies!
  5. Women are more likely to seek out oral sex being performed on women
    The top five terms were “guy licking pussy,” “man eating pussy,” “pussy eating orgasm,” “pussy licking,” and “eating pussy.”
  6. The average worldwide porn consumer is 34 years old for women
    And 36 years old for men.
  7. Women spend a little longer than men watching porn
    Women “get off” of Pornhub in around 10 minutes—about a minute longer than men.

In the mood to really see what women want? We just need 10 minutes of your time!

Check out more surprising facts about women who watch porn here.

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New Film About Fetishes is Full of Kink and Laughs

Posted on August 5, 2015 by NiteFlirt

The Little Death is a new Australian comedy by writer/director/actor Josh Lawson that’s full of kinky sexual fetishes and hilarious scenarios. The film intertwines stories that revolve around five fetishes: rape fantasy, role play, dacryphilia (crying fetish), somnophilia (sleeping fetish), and telephone scatologia (obscene phone call fetish). The scenarios are absurd, funny, and clever—in one of them, a deaf man uses a Skype sign language interpreter to call a phone sex line!

While writing the script, the filmmaker created several scandalous scenarios for other fetishes that didn’t end up making it in the final cut (one involving dendrophilia, or a sexual attraction to trees). But the most interesting thing about the film is how it doesn’t moralize or shame any of the characters for their kinky tastes. It also doesn’t shy away from explicit language and subject matter. Lawson said of fetishists, “No matter how weird and wonderful we think we are, we all deserve love in a way that makes sense to us.” Amen to that!

Want to celebrate the right to be kinky? We’re all about weird and wonderful scenarios here!

Check out more about The Little Death here.

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Millennials Most Searched For Categories on Pornhub

Posted on August 4, 2015 by NiteFlirt

You can find out a lot about a generation just through looking at their porn preferences. That’s why Pornhub recently decided to sneak a peak at what types of porn Millennials are getting into these days. Since Millennials make up around 60 percent of Pornhub’s users, they rounded up the data to find out more about what, exactly, is getting youngsters off. So what’s the most searched for categories among the 18-34 demographic?

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Not surprisingly, lesbian, teen, stepmom, MILF, squirt ranked the highest. And the next top five terms were mom, step sister, Japanese, threesome, massage. Other interesting data: Millennials watch the most porn on Mondays between 11pm and midnight, and they usually watch it on their phones. Millennials are also more likely to use porn categories than older users, such as cosplay, hentai, pov, anime, and emo (so angsty!). So what have we learned? Mainly that Millennials are down for some hot girl-on-girl action with a mom or a teenage stepsister, or both at the same time, preferably in anime!

Want to get into some action yourself? Ain’t nothing like the real thing, baby!

Check out more data about what Millennials want from their porn.

 

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Strippers Explain Strip Club Etiquette

Posted on August 3, 2015 by NiteFlirt

Copy-of-Stripper_on_a_Pole_svgLet’s face it, in any establishment there are unwritten rules about how to behave—and this is especially true at a strip club. That’s why some exotic dancers were only too happy to sit down with a writer at Vice to discuss how customers should behave when getting down at the strip club. Here’s the dancers’ best advice for those looking to have some fun, and not piss anyone off:

  1. Don’t try to have sex with the dancers
    Strippers work in the sex industry, but they aren’t sex workers. Meaning, they don’t have sex for money. Don’t ask; it’s rude.
  2. Be nice; don’t be creepy Some strippers have had some not so nice experiences with dudes telling them that they look like a sister or a daughter. That’s creepy. Best not to mention relatives at the strip club.
  3. Wear deodorant
    Body odor kills the mood pretty quick. Be kind; wear deodorant.
  4. Fetish play costs extra If you’ve got a fetish you’d like a dancer to indulge in the champagne room, understand that you will need to pay extra.
  5. Don’t cum in your pants
    If you are going to cum, please give the dancer a heads up (pun intended!) beforehand. It’s not polite to have her sit in your jizz without a warning.
  6. Respect the strippers
    These women are mothers, daughters, sisters, students, future surgeons, you name it. They need to be treated with respect.

Want to have some well-behaved (or not!) fun with us? You know what they say, what happens in the Niteflirt champagne room, stays in the Niteflirt champagne room!

Check out more of the strippers’ best stories and tips.

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Sexual Fetish Research Shows the Endlessness of Erotic Desire

Posted on August 2, 2015 by NiteFlirt

sexy-scientistResearchers have come a long way since 2004 when they first attempted to catalogue human’s seemingly endless sexual fetishes. Back then, the most common fetishes involved body parts, namely feet and toes, followed by body fluids (blood, urine, etc.), then body types (tall, short, fat, to name a few). The research also documented objects that go on the body—stockings, shoes, skirts and, of course, the most popular, underwear. The most shocking fetishes recorded then probably had to do with catheters and pacemakers…we’ll let you use your imagination.

But now, psychiatrists have taken on the monumental task of attempting to record all of the sexual fetishes in the world in order to include them in the ever evolving Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders (DSM). In the latest DSM released in 2010, the focus turned to Paraphilia, or “the experience of intense sexual arousal to atypical objects, situations, or individuals.” Before doctors understood that paraphilia fetishes were just a kinky sexual preference, people called these fetishists “perverts” or “sexual deviants.” These days, researchers just want to understand fetishes like Dacryphilia (a BDSM variant whereby sexual enjoyment or arousal is gained from tears and crying) to record and try to make sense of all the endless ways people express erotic desire.

Want to have some kinky experiences yourself? We are all about endless erotic desire here!

Check out more about the history of sexual fetish research here.

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